Growth. It’s a multidimensional and multifunctional thing. If you are truly growing it will have an effect in your mind, function, life and surroundings.
Making growth your priority will teach you what and who is really for you. If you feel devided, it’s not for you. If you keep questioning are they good for you, they’re not for you.
I’m not saying life should be easy. If it’s easy come it’s easy go, right, and who the fuck wants that. But you should not constantly feel devided, feel like you can’t live up to your morals or feel disrespected and unappreciated. There are many people who are willing to settle for any crumbs they can get - just don’t let it be you.
“Many people are willing to settle for any crumbs they can get
- just don’t let it be you.”
If you want to win in this life you can’t be constantly surrounding yourself with losers.
By a loser I do nor mean your friends or family who are going trough a rough time or are not winning in all areas of their lives, no. None of us are, not even you. Take good care of your close ones and love the hell out of them.
I talk about the people who are not aiming for anything, are lazy as fuck, are not interested in anything productive in this life, are not willing to search for information or learn new skills. I talk about the people who’ll more likely shut your dreams down than encourage or support you. The poeple who don’t know or want to know about the hunger of getting shit done, doing better and getting better. These people are toxic to someone who is in it to win it.
You don’t have to surround yourself only with winners, masterminds, visionaries, multitalented beings and fairy dust, but you have to get rid of the extra weight that is holding you down in order for you to start shining. Simple as that.
Of all the people who has walked into my life within these past two years I’ve let go 50% of them. Sounds a bit harsh, doesn’t it? But I embrace the fact that not everyone who walks into your life is meant to stay there and it’s your job to find out which ones are the keepers. You know when something is right for you, you know when it’s different.
If you are trying to win in your life, let me just leave you with these few simple questions.
When you surround yourself with people who pursue nothing and lack motivation, what does that do to your level of motivation?
When you work with people who are only willing to do their minimum, how long do you think you’ll be doing your maximum?
When people around you use words like I can’t, I don’t know how, I don’t feel like doing that, I’m not willing to make the effort, how long do you think it’ll take for you to start making the same sorry ass excuses?
When people around you are not excited, how are you supposed to keep your high level of excitiment up?
That’s it for today, hope to see you again!
Feed the fire! / Eeva